Many mentoring programmes launch with strong designs, motivated mentees and ambitious goals—but still fall short when it comes to securing the right mentors.
For programme managers, especially those coordinating pro bono or volunteer-based initiatives, mentor recruitment often becomes the biggest barrier to getting a programme off the ground. And yet, in many cases, the issue isn’t a shortage of willing professionals—it’s how the opportunity is framed and communicated.
In this post, we explore five common missteps that may be holding your recruitment efforts back—and offer ways to rethink your approach so mentors feel compelled to step forward.
1. You’re Selling “Giving Back” When Mentors Are Also Looking to Grow
Too many recruitment messages focus solely on how mentors will help others. But mentoring isn’t just a favour—it’s a reciprocal relationship. Experienced professionals are more likely to say yes when they see what’s in it for them, too.
Are you communicating the professional and personal benefits of mentoring?
Think:
- Sharpened leadership and coaching skills
- Exposure to new ideas, sectors or markets
- Access to exclusive training or peer networks
- Recognition that actually means something
The shift: Stop selling altruism alone. Speak to mentors’ ambition, curiosity and desire to make a meaningful contribution while growing themselves.
2. You’re Asking Too Much, Too Soon
A vague ask like “Would you be willing to mentor?” is heavy—especially without clear boundaries. Most people aren’t saying no to mentoring; they’re saying no to the unknown.
Have you made it easy to say yes?
Be specific. Outline time commitments, what support they’ll receive, and how long the mentoring relationship will last. Offer different levels of involvement—light-touch vs deeper engagements.
The shift: Make the first step small and clear. A defined, time-bound, well-supported role is much more appealing than an open-ended commitment.
3. You’re Talking About the Programme. But Mentors Care About the People.
Programme managers often focus on the structure, timeline and goals. That’s important—but it’s not what hooks a mentor.
Have you introduced your potential mentors to the real people they’ll be helping?
Try:
- Short videos or quotes from past mentees
- Sharing the challenges your mentees are navigating
- Framing the mentoring opportunity as a chance to shape the next generation of changemakers
The shift: Lead with human stories, not programme logistics. People sign up for people, not processes.
4. You Haven’t Built a Sense of Belonging
Mentoring can feel isolating—especially in one-to-one formats. But when mentors see they’re part of a wider community, it changes everything.
Are you creating a space where mentors connect with each other?
Don’t wait until after recruitment. Highlight this upfront:
- “You’ll join a vibrant community of 50+ mentors across the region”
- “We hold quarterly mentor-only learning labs”
- “Our mentors co-shape the programme”
The shift: Build and sell the community before they join—not after.
5. You’re Trying to Recruit Without First Listening
It’s tempting to write the recruitment messages, build the slide decks, and send the emails all from your own perspective. But have you spoken to the mentors you’re trying to reach?
Do you know what your mentors value—and what’s turning them off?
Ask:
- What would make mentoring worth your time right now?
- What support would you expect if you said yes?
- What concerns might stop you from signing up?
The shift: Co-create your recruitment approach with the very people you’re hoping to attract.
Rethink Recruitment Before You Worry About Retention
We often talk about keeping mentors engaged. But the real challenge for many programmes is attracting the right mentors in the first place. That starts by changing the story we tell.
So pause for a moment. Revisit your recruitment emails, your slide decks, your outreach strategy. Are you:
- Highlighting the benefits for mentors?
- Making the ask simple and specific?
- Putting real faces at the centre of your message?
- Building belonging from the beginning?
- Listening before you pitch?
If not—now’s the time to change tack. Great mentors are out there. They just need a reason to say yes.
Want to go deeper? Our Running Effective Mentoring Programmes course helps programme managers design experiences that attract, engage and retain the kinds of mentors who make real impact—without needing to rely on financial incentives.